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Ideally, the spouse too was attending a Step co-sex addict program and doing individual and couple counseling. A married man, 34, did a lot of "chatting," some of which progressed to phone sex. The moment I diagnosed myself as an online sex addict, it stopped being difficult to abstain. I came up with some safety mechanisms but only had to use them a few times. Just getting Single Gary Indiana for military man of the house and going to a movie helped.

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There are particular challenges for women who perceive their cybersex involvement as compulsive and seek help. These are the same challenges faced by female sex addicts in general. A year old woman wrote, "However shameful it is for men to seek help for this addiction, it is doubly so for women.

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