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Wannabe cult leaders or others looking to "brainwash" people into following them in a non-thinking way will find no help here. That's all right. Reasonable minds can differ. That said, his understanding of the fundamental principles and approaches is both realistic and very useful, and both his compassion and his humanity are clear.
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Let the pioneering continue. Epilogue Appendix A: It takes tremendous commitment to follow a path that at best is likely to be misunderstood by those around you.
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